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The girls LYF works with

Meet the girls and young women who have found help through LYF.

Translated from Cebuano

In their own words

Girls in the program recorded short videos, in Cebuano, about what life was like before LYF, how LYF helped, and what is different now. Here are three of them, with subtitles.

One of the girls

“Before LYF, I felt I was carrying everything alone. Sometimes it felt like I had no direction.”

“The help with money meant a lot to me and my family. But more important was the emotional support: LYF is a safe space, where they listen without judging.”

“I’m not the same as before. I’m stronger, more confident, and I know myself better. When I have a problem, I know I’m not alone.”

A young mother

“As a mother, I struggled to raise my children, especially to keep them in school. There was no one I could ask.”

“LYF helped not only me but my children: school things, money when we needed it, and above all encouragement. They taught my four-year-old to try hard and that she has worth.”

“I have more peace now, and I’m stronger. I don’t cry the way I used to.”

One of the girls

“Before LYF, life was hard, especially food. When there was a problem, I didn’t know where to go for help.”

“They are always ready to listen. They taught me to be strong, to think things through, and to look for ways to help my family.”

Me now, me in the future

What they want to become

In one group activity each girl drew herself now and herself in the future, and wrote why. Here are six, with what they wrote, translated from Cebuano where needed.

A drawing: a student surrounded by books now, a teacher in the future
“Now I’m still a student, working hard for my dreams. In the future I want to be a teacher, help my grandmother, and inspire others.”
A drawing of a young mother with her baby, and of herself graduating
A young mother: “Now I take care of my child. In the future I want to be a social worker and help my family. It’s hard, but I’ll work hard to finish school.”
A drawing of a businesswoman in front of a city
“Right now: studying to graduate college and achieve my goals, so I can help my family. In the future: a successful businesswoman, helping others who need help.”
A drawing of a schoolgirl now and a nurse in the future
“Now I go to school. In the future I’ll be a nurse, so I can help my family.”
A drawing of a flight attendant
“I want to be a flight attendant.”
A drawing of a Jollibee restaurant
“In the future I want to be a cashier at Jollibee.” Jollibee is the biggest fast-food chain in the Philippines.

Some of the girls LYF supports

Portrait of Dynez

Dynez's story

A mother, keeping her children fed and her home running.

Portrait of Dimple

Dimple's story

Help with her family's health costs, from medicine to a checkup.

Portrait of Cris

Cris's story

When food ran short at home, LYF made sure her family had rice.

Portrait of Casey

Casey's story

She and her family got through a stretch when even the basics were out of reach.

Portrait of Britney

Britney's story

A student who finished an important school project, with help for meals at home.

Portrait of Birthlyn

Birthlyn's story

Caring for her son, with medicine and diapers covered.

Portrait of Andrea

Andrea's story

Raising a young family, and keeping up with home and school costs.

Portrait of Alyzsa

Alyzsa's story

A student, keeping up with school while her family had money trouble.

Portrait of Imee, smiling

Imee's story

Getting medicine for herself and her son, and rice for the family.

Portrait of Jamila

Jamila's story

A mother still in school, studying while she cares for her baby.

Portrait of Jessa, with long dark hair

Jessa's story

A mother, caring for her baby while helping her family get by.

Portrait of Jessica

Jessica's story

She turned to LYF when a family member needed medical care.

Portrait of Jessil

Jessil's story

Her family could still put rice on the table when food money ran short.

Portrait of Juanter

Juanter's story

Caring for her child when money was short, with milk and diapers.

Portrait of Justina, smiling, with her glasses pushed up on her head

Justina's story

A student, finishing her school requirements with less money pressure.

Portrait of Kiea, with long dark hair and a fringe

Kiea's story

Looking after her baby, with food, diapers and medicine.

Portrait of Lin

Lin's story

Keeping her household going when money ran short, with help toward the rent.

Portrait of Mona, smiling

Mona's story

A student, staying in school while she helps her family cope.

Portrait of Trixie, smiling, with long dark hair

Trixie's story

A student, keeping up with school while managing her health costs.

Portrait of Vanessa, smiling

Vanessa's story

Getting the treatment she needed: medicine, medical tests and a specialist's care.

Portrait of Vionna

Vionna's story

Making sure her baby has milk, cereal and diapers.

Lessons

The study session runs online every week. Many sessions teach one practical thing, from spotting a loan-app trap to finding work that fits, and end with a short review. Most weeks there is also a group activity, often a short video each girl makes of herself. Lessons since June, and how many came.

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